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Richie, participants in the Rain need to realize far more people read than engage.  Just because someone doesn't directly respond or message, doesn't mean statements aren't witnessed and filed away in the memory storage banks.  Long term consequences can happen from not exercising appropriate keyboard restraint.

Aug 26, 2024 12:32 PM
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John Juarez
The Medford Real Estate Team - Fremont, CA
ePRO, SRES, GRI, PMN

We are born with two ears and one mouth for more than one reason. It is important to listen and understand rather than blabber and show our lack of understanding.

Aug 26, 2024 01:38 PM
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Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® CRS,ABR,PSA,RCS-D, CFSP
Big Block LPT Realty 858.232.8722 - La Jolla, CA
Coastal San Diego, Veteran's & Retirees Services

I'd like to think so, but I know I'm still capable of...
my foot in my mouth' mean ...

Aug 26, 2024 04:16 PM
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Candice A. Donofrio
Next Wave RE Investments LLC Bullhead City AZ Commercial RE Broker - Fort Mohave, AZ
928-201-4BHC (4242) call/text

I would throw stones from my glass house but it'd break all my windows. And it's too hot out there my AC wouldn't work,

Aug 26, 2024 02:35 PM
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David M. Dwares
Title Professionals Corp. - Fort Lauderdale, FL
Title guy with a broker license

Well, since you say this is just for fun...  I know more than a few people whose idea of a conversation is not listening and then speaking, it is talking and then waiting to talk, no listening involved.

I guess you could say those people may have foot fetish.

Aug 26, 2024 02:35 PM
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Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Seek first to understand, then to be understood. I am a work in progress but sometimes lack of patience gets in the way.

Aug 27, 2024 04:10 AM
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Anna "Banana" Kruchten
Retired Broker/Owner - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

LOL good one Richie!  Some folks do have a tendency to continually eat foot food over and over and over for years.  I say walk away - move those feet out of your mouth, and walk baby walk!  Breathe in - Breathe out.  No  more words coming from your feet 🍌

Aug 26, 2024 02:37 PM
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Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

My listening skills still need a lot of work. And, I could say the same thing about my patience.

Aug 26, 2024 12:21 PM
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Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

 

No foot fetishes here, Richie Alan Naggar 

Aug 27, 2024 10:55 AM
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Bob Crane
Woodland Management Service / Woodland Real Estate, KW Diversified - Stevens Point, WI
Forestland Experts! 715-204-9671

Some folks do this frequently, others less often, I am sure we all do it sometime.

Aug 26, 2024 08:52 PM
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Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

Edible socks definitely raise a few eyebrows! While they’re all in good fun, they serve as a perfect metaphor. Your words can inadvertently lead to misunderstandings in both your personal and professional life. 

 

Listening carefully and asking the right questions can save you from those awkward “foot in mouth” moments. Patience goes a long way in conversations, allowing you to truly connect with others. 

 

Making an effort to communicate effectively usually yields positive results. So why not savor the sweet taste of clear communication instead of those quirky snacks? 

 

Keep enjoying the humor, but don’t forget to pay attention to how words impact your relationships.

 

Aug 26, 2024 01:05 PM
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Inna Ivchenko
Barcode Properties - Encino, CA
Realtor® • GRI • HAFA • PSC • Short Sale • Probate

Well, some people never learn.... some even like feet in their mouth......oh, well, you started it. 

Aug 28, 2024 08:55 PM
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Carla Freund
Keller Williams Preferred Realty - Raleigh, NC
NC Real Estate Transition & Relocation 919-602-848

None are perfect and it would behove all to show grace.

Thanks for always engaging here in the rain.

Aug 28, 2024 03:35 PM
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Peter Mohylsky,
Property Management International-Destin - Inlet Beach, FL
Call me at 850-517-7098

keyboard restraint  new term to the rain or atleast to me.  But I do understand.  and I do try to listen more than I speak.  If I speak I try to speak with authority, meaning from a place of knowledge.  I listen good too so I am switching to that mode now.  :)

Aug 26, 2024 02:01 PM