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Joseph Domino 480-390-6011, Real Estate Made Easy (HomeSmart)

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Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Be well.  Do good.  Hopefully any momentary acclaim will not truly matter in the long term  Hopefully.  

Aug 28, 2019 07:52 PM
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Richard Weeks
Dallas, TX
REALTOR®, Broker

My spouse and boss are one in the same.  In my younger years I would proably call them out.  Now days I would just look right pass on it.

Aug 29, 2019 03:02 AM
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Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
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I'm not okay with people stealing my photos or articles I write but, a good deed...they can have the credit - especially if it makes the world a better place. 🌍 

Aug 28, 2019 08:03 PM
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Bob Crane
Woodland Management Service / Woodland Real Estate, KW Diversified - Stevens Point, WI
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The good deed is the reward, taking credit is not important, humility is a virtue.

Aug 28, 2019 09:49 PM
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Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Well it depends, but I suspect it may not be something I want to get too upset about. Life's too short and there are more important life issues to worry about!

Aug 28, 2019 09:19 PM
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Valeria Mola
SIB Realty - Miami, Sunny Isles Beach - Sunny Isles Beach, FL
305-607-0709 SIB Realty Condos for Sale and Rent

Well, if it will be my boss, I am OK with it - she is my Mom. ;)

Aug 29, 2019 12:30 PM
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
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I don't have a boss... I am the boss of me. That's why I'm an independent contractor.

My spouse would have a very hard time taking credit for something I did... he knows his life wouldn't be worth a plug nickel if he did that!

Aug 29, 2019 04:37 AM
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Carla Freund
Keller Williams Preferred Realty - Raleigh, NC
NC Real Estate Transition & Relocation 919-602-848

It depends on who it was and what the good deed was. A few years ago my husband ordered my MIL cheesecake of the year for her birthday. She loved sweets and she loved cheesecake. She assumed I ordered it and called and thanked me. My husband was with me and she said, "and thank you too honey". We just laughed about it. I offered to tell her the truth about who ordered it but, my husband said , no, it's fine. Don't tell her. Well, every month when her cheesecake arrived, she would call me to thank me. We never told her the truth. Now you are in on our secret! 

Aug 29, 2019 04:02 AM
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Diana Dahlberg
1 Month Realty - Pleasant Prairie, WI
Real Estate in Kenosha, WI since 1994 262-308-3563

In view of the end of the story I don't let something like this bother me.

Aug 28, 2019 08:49 PM
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Ryan Huggins - Thousand Oaks, CA
https://HugginsHomes.com - Thousand Oaks, CA
Residential Real Estate and Investment Properties

That's called 90% of bosses in the corporate world.  Word gets out about them quickly.

 

I would embed something in the future to show I created the material.  A watermark or a particular phrase.  I may also copy other people as witnesses that I sent the information.

 

Many ways to skin that cat.

Aug 29, 2019 08:33 AM
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Joe Pryor
The Virtual Real Estate Team - Oklahoma City, OK
REALTOR® - Oklahoma Investment Properties

The point is to do something good without asking for anything in return.

Aug 29, 2019 06:55 AM
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Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

The books that God keeps are the only ones that matter...Go from there

Aug 29, 2019 06:49 AM
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Peter Testa
Nationwide Homes - Danbury, CT
PETER TESTA

There's narcissists in most everyone's circle. You don't challenge their fragile eggshell egos. 

Aug 29, 2019 06:18 AM
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Sam Shueh
(408) 425-1601 - San Jose, CA
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Accept it.  That is how it works.

Aug 29, 2019 06:07 AM
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Peter den Boer
Atlanta Communities - Woodstock, GA
MBA,GRI, Associate Broker, Realtor

nah, let them have the credit. I know what I did and that is enough for me.

Aug 29, 2019 05:56 AM
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Michael J. Perry
KW Elite - Lancaster, PA
Lancaster, PA Relo Specialist

The Corp World is full of climbers

Aug 29, 2019 05:33 AM
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Lyn Sims
Schaumburg, IL
Real Estate Broker Retired

Spouse, nothing.

Boss, nothing at the time maybe. In private I would ask him what is wrong with his ego.

Aug 29, 2019 05:00 AM
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Karen Climer
Demetree School of Real Estate - Orlando, FL
Teaching people to pass the real estate exam

This question is too broad and vague to expect a reasonable answer.

Would the answer change depending on who took the action?  Of course it would.  The answer would change based any number of variables, which is why this question is too broad.

If you are trying to get our opinion on a specific situation, we need more details.

Aug 29, 2019 04:22 AM
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Debra Leisek
Bay Realty,Inc Homer Alaska - Homer, AK

My mother always taught me the best deed was the deed unknown

I don't need credit I just need to honor Harriette every day with quietly helping others.... 

Aug 29, 2019 01:53 AM
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Don Baker
Lane Realty - Eatonton, GA
Lake Sinclair Specialist

A - I don't do good deeds for the "credit"

B- if it was work related and my boss had a boss I'd mention it was my thing infront of my boss to my bosses' boss

C- My wife would never do that to me

Aug 29, 2019 12:39 PM
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Bob "RealMan" Timm
Ward County Notary Services - Minot, ND
Owner of Ward Co Notary Services retired RE Broker

It's what I expect every day Joseph Domino 480-390-6011 .

Aug 29, 2019 12:29 PM
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Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
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It depends on what it was and who took the credit.  Life is short. I do choose my battles.  I choose to focus on doing good and what makes me happy. I spend little energy on things that could keep me in an unhappy or upset state. 

Aug 29, 2019 09:20 AM
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Sandy Padula & Norm Padula, JD, GRI
HomeSmart Realty West & Florida Realty Investments - , CA
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It has happened in the past and I just move on.

Aug 29, 2019 09:03 AM
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Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Joseph,

There is an abundance of good stuff we do daily, and frankly I do not care who gets the credit.  I don't have a boss, and Ron and I do not care about who gets credit.  Life is way too precious to spend time worrying about this.  The only credit I care about checking is a refund on a credit card.  A

Aug 29, 2019 07:39 AM
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Scott Godzyk
Godzyk Real Estate Services - Manchester, NH
One of the Manchester NH's area Leading Agents

It may depend what it is, who did it and it did it matter if they knew. Most likely I woul correct them in front of the person that i did good for. 

Aug 29, 2019 05:35 AM
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Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Chicago, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Jeff Dowler, CRS and I are on the same page.

Aug 29, 2019 04:34 AM
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Greg Cremia
Shore Realty of the Outer Banks - Nags Head, NC

A goog deed? A good job? A good meal? Each would be handled differently.

Aug 29, 2019 04:14 AM
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Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Nothing. 

Aug 30, 2019 03:08 PM
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Wayne Zuhl
Remax First Realty II - Cranford, NJ
The Last Name You'll Ever Need in Real Estate

Most of what I do, I don't do for credit. 

In my workplace, my job is to help my boss look good. In my home, my job is to help my spouse look good.

 

Aug 30, 2019 06:04 AM
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Evelina Tsigelnitskaya
SIB Realty - Sunny Isles Beach, FL

Well, will be upset and after will say :"Go to ... " and forget

Aug 29, 2019 10:37 PM
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John Juarez
The Medford Real Estate Team - Fremont, CA
ePRO, SRES, GRI, PMN

I have had a hard time coming up with an answer. All I can say is that it would depend on the circumstances. No one-size-fits-all answer to your question(s), Joseph Domino 480-390-6011 

Aug 29, 2019 06:52 PM
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Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

It is not life-threatening - all good.

Sep 18, 2019 07:17 AM
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Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

It happens all the time and that is okay if it makes them feel good about them.

 

Sep 02, 2019 11:49 AM