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Marta Lopez, I am currently studying to get my real estate  (Nordstrom )

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Barbara Todaro
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Happily Retired - Franklin, MA
Previously Affiliated with The Todaro Team

stop talking to negative people....if everyone you speak with is negative, read books.... stop talking to all of them....once you're licensed, learn to make the phone ring and you'll show them all how a positive agent works...and produces..... 

Jan 02, 2019 10:41 AM
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Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Stay away from the naysayers - they will suck the positivity right out of you!

Life (and our careers) are what we make it!

Jan 02, 2019 03:30 PM
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Evelina Tsigelnitskaya
SIB Realty - Sunny Isles Beach, FL

I am with Barbara. 

Do not get involved with Negative People. 

Did you get your license, Marta? 

It seems you are working on it for awhile.

Jan 02, 2019 11:20 AM
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Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Focus on your business and only seek company of positive agents..the negative ones stay away from. Surround yourself by the successful ones..do everything that Barbara Todaro tells you to do!

Jan 02, 2019 01:19 PM
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Bob Crane
Woodland Management Service / Woodland Real Estate, KW Diversified - Stevens Point, WI
Forestland Experts! 715-204-9671

Write your own business plan, a "bad market" can be a place to prosper if you know what you are doing.

Jan 02, 2019 11:25 AM
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Doug Dawes
Keller Williams Evolution - 447 Boston Street, Suite #5, Topsfield, MA - Topsfield, MA
Your Personal Realtor®

You'll always hear negatives about markets and people. Don't let that stop you from realizing your dreams

Jan 03, 2019 03:45 AM
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Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Excited Good.  Negative Bad.

Questions Good....

Jan 02, 2019 11:40 AM
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

What Barbara Todaro said. 

Jan 02, 2019 11:24 AM
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Olga Simoncelli
Veritas Prime, LLC dba Veritas Prime Real Estate - New Fairfield, CT
CONSULTANT, Real Estate Services & Risk Management

There is always negative stuff about everything. If you are excited about getting your license, give it a try, but nothing's "easy".

Jan 02, 2019 02:04 PM
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Gita Bantwal
RE/MAX Centre Realtors - Warwick, PA
REALTOR,ABR,CRS,SRES,GRI - Bucks County & Philadel

I agree with Barbara.

Jan 02, 2019 01:41 PM
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Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

markets can be good or bad.  Good agents can succeed in any kind of market. Others are weeded out in a bad market.  This job isn't for everyone, but it's been the career I love for 25 years now.

Jan 02, 2019 12:58 PM
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Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Maybe you're not talking to the right people! 

Jan 02, 2019 12:16 PM
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Sam Shueh
(408) 425-1601 - San Jose, CA
mba, cdpe, reopro, pe

 Do not let your fear deter your goal.  

 

Jan 02, 2019 02:18 PM
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Annette Lawrence , Palm Harbor, FL 727-420-4041
ReMax Realtec Group - Palm Harbor, FL
Making FLORIDA Real Estate EZ

Is there a question in there?

Marta, the two subjects are unrelated to each other.

Being a real estate agent requires adapting to the market, not being controlled by it. Everyone wants to sleep under a roof. How you put them there may require thinking for yourself.

My take is, don't do it. From what I've seen, you are about to lose $12,000.

Jan 02, 2019 02:17 PM
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Raj Taj
RE/MAX - Lake Bluff, IL
Drive By Blessings!

"There will be fire and tribulation!" Book of Raj

Jan 02, 2019 01:24 PM
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Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

You need to associate with more positive real estate professionals.

Jan 02, 2019 12:15 PM
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Richard Weeks
Dallas, TX
REALTOR®, Broker

Just move right on past that.

Jan 02, 2019 11:34 AM
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Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Mara,

Listen to our favorite wise person on Active Rain, Barbara Todaro 

Jan 02, 2019 11:29 AM
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Susan Emo
Sotheby's International Realty Canada - Brokerage - Kingston, ON
Kingston and the 1000 Islands Area

I may be the differing voice here:  Real Estate can be extremely negative.  The majority of my business comes from the 4 Big Ds . . .

Divorce

Death

Debt

Downsizing

Dealing with these Ds on a daily basis can be quite a negative experience if you allow it to be.  Money usually brings out the worst in people and thos 4 Ds all involve money in one way or another.   I think it is wise to know what you are getting into an to understand it is not all rainbows and unicorns.

Jan 03, 2019 11:58 AM
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Peter Mohylsky, Beach Expert
PMI. Destin - Miramar Beach, FL
Call me at 850-517-7098

Don’t listen to the negative in any way.  Listen to tony Robbins, power of attraction.

Jan 02, 2019 06:30 PM
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Diana Zaccaro Broker Associate
ZOOM Realty Group - Cocoa Beach, FL
"The Accidental Blogger" Cocoa Beach, Florida

According to your profile, you work at Nordstrom and if the real estate agents you are talking to are customers there, you may be mis-reading what they are saying.

They may be trying to tell you that selling real estate is a much different animal than selling at Nordie's and, while you may be the top sales agent there, it is tough to break into the real estate market as a newbie

Best advice I can give is to ask the next person who says negative things about your market WHY they said that. The answers may surprise you and it's a good idea to cultivate relationships with local REALTORS® while you are in school and begin to learn about your local market.

If it turns out that they are really just being negative, then Barbara Todaro gave you great advice. 

 

Jan 02, 2019 06:17 PM
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William Feela
WHISPERING PINES REALTY - North Branch, MN
Realtor, Whispering Pines Realty 651-674-5999 No.

The market is only as good or as bad as you make it

Jan 02, 2019 05:28 PM
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Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® e-Pro CRS RCS-D Vets
Big Block Realty 858.232.8722 - La Jolla, CA
CEO of Vision Drive Realty - Coastal San Diego

80% of the agents you meet will always be negative.

Let them be.

They are making your job easier!!!

Jan 02, 2019 05:24 PM
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Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

Tune-in another channel

Jan 02, 2019 05:17 PM
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Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

None of us would have succeeded IF we listened to the Naysayers. I've even written posts about all the things other people told me I could not do! If you want it..go for it and good luck.

Jan 02, 2019 04:46 PM
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John Pusa
Glendale, CA

Marta Lopez many good response.

Jan 02, 2019 03:42 PM
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Mike Baltierra
Rise Realty - Eastvale, CA
Full Service at Your Service Realtor-Eastvale CA

Shut it down. The negative talk has always been and always will be. Real Estate is tough and if you don't have what it takes don't get your license.

Jan 02, 2019 03:21 PM
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Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Chicago, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Your market is what you make it. No more and no less!

Jan 02, 2019 01:39 PM
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Ryan Huggins - Thousand Oaks, CA
https://HugginsHomes.com - Thousand Oaks, CA
Residential Real Estate and Investment Properties

There will always be people complaining about the market.  In a seller's market you have buyers agent complaining about how hard it is to find a house.  In a buyer's market, listing agents complain about homes sitting.  Right now in a changing market you have agents who have never seen anything other than our super hot seller's market freaking out because homes aren't selling in a week any more.

Jan 03, 2019 09:28 AM
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Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

Focus on you and what you want and ignore the naysayers ... there are a few on every corner ... avoid them. 

Jan 03, 2019 08:45 AM
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Scott Godzyk
Godzyk Real Estate Services - Manchester, NH
One of the Manchester NH's area Leading Agents

You get negative talk from negatve people. A good real estate agent chooses the best part of the market on a given day and talks about that. Such as rates went up, but it spurred buyers to act now and a sharp increase in sales for December when it is usually as dead as the leaves on the ground

Jan 03, 2019 06:02 AM
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Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

As others recommend, steer clear of the negativity. You are always going to find it but it never helps anyone!

Jan 02, 2019 09:21 PM
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Dan Tabit
Keller Williams Bellevue - Sammamish, WA

90% of new agents won't be in the business in 2 years.  If you keep listening to the negative voices, you can save your education and licensing fees. if you can realize that the only market that matters is the one you create, through your sphere of influence and personal contacts, you may have the beginning of a career.  In the end, it's up to you. 

Jan 02, 2019 08:19 PM
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Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

Those who speak negative, won't be in the industry long.

Jan 06, 2019 07:48 AM
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Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

You make your on way, do not listen to others

Jan 04, 2019 11:35 AM
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Gabe Sanders
Real Estate of Florida specializing in Martin County Residential Homes, Condos and Land Sales - Stuart, FL
Stuart Florida Real Estate

You may be meeting the wrong agents.

Jan 03, 2019 07:29 AM