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Jeff Pearl, Full Service Full Time Realtor (RE/MAX Distinctive / LIC in VA)

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Fred Griffin Real Estate - Tallahassee, FL
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    Many people will blame the parents; why are the children left alone, etc.?

      I won't blame the victims.  I will blame this dirtbag.  He should be punished to the fullest extent of the law.

 

    I will still make recommendations of people that I have known for years.

Jul 20, 2017 02:58 PM
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Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

Why are kids being left alone with strangers?  

Jul 20, 2017 12:58 PM
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Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
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My heart goes out to the victims and their families. 

How did the man have access to the kids/teens?  Presumably, the contractor was left in the home with the kids without supervision.  That would just never happen in my world. Sadly, I have learned to to trust others at this level. I would not leave a contractor in my home without me present ... under any circumstances.  I would not trust my personal belongings or my pet to be left unattended.  

Jul 20, 2017 12:51 PM
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Caroline Gerardo
Licensed in 20 states - Newport Beach, CA
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Very sad case. This man ruined the lives of many. Don't leave  children alone with strangers. I think homeowners felt safe in their own place and this creep who has charm skills that he uses to hurt people. Would the person recommending be at fault? No, not unless you recommend him now after you know he's dangerous.  

Jul 20, 2017 12:48 PM
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Raj Taj
RE/MAX - Lake Bluff, IL
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And it doesn't matter if it's a handywoman or handyman nowadays, especially in Florida.

Jul 20, 2017 03:17 PM
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Ryan Huggins - Thousand Oaks, CA
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No, it doesn't impact my ability/desire to recommend trades people.  If it's not trades people, it's soccer coaches, teachers and priests... oh my!  Best bet is to teach your kids how to defend themselves.

Jul 20, 2017 05:16 PM
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Teri Pacitto
Compass - Westlake Village, CA
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Very sad and scary indeed.  It's not your fault and I would still refer your resources if asked.  We cannot be responsible for the actions of others.  Caroline Gerardo has a great response.  

Jul 20, 2017 12:58 PM
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Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
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That was the theme in the "The Green Mile" movie. As to referrals, they all come with caveats as in let the buyer beware. I guarantee nothing

Jul 20, 2017 12:26 PM
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Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
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My first thought was who in the heck leaves their kids alone with a service person.  We bet all our people extremely carefully and our clients never would leave their kids alone with a stranger - even he had been there many times before. I sure wouldn't!!

Jul 20, 2017 06:06 PM
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Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
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I am with Chris Ann Cleland .  My parents would have never left me alone with strangers. A

Jul 20, 2017 05:59 PM
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Lyn Sims
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I don't want to even read it. It's heart breaking to hear this stuff. It is a problem if you recommend someone.

Jul 20, 2017 03:56 PM
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Barbara Todaro
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Happily Retired - Franklin, MA
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I only recommend those I know personally..... 

Jul 20, 2017 03:36 PM
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Calista Goff
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Genuinely curious how parents would not notice the following:

1) the handyman that they are paying to complete a job, is in your house, but not working on said job 

2) their child is not within sight

3) both handyman and child are out of sight... at the same time.

I'll just leave this right here.

Jul 20, 2017 01:34 PM
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Scott Godzyk
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First of all i would never have any work man in my home alone with my daughter. 

Jul 21, 2017 05:20 AM
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Debe Maxwell, CRS
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No matter how old the children are, they should never be left home with strangers in the house. This is SO sad, Jeff.

Jul 20, 2017 09:09 PM
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We cannot be the police, it is up to the parents to check out the people that are around their children.

Jul 20, 2017 08:42 PM
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Dorie Dillard Austin TX
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Hi Jeff,

My heart goes out to the victims and their families....Very sad case. I like Fred Griffin "won't blame the victims.  I will blame this dirtbag.  He should be punished to the fullest extent of the law!"

Jul 20, 2017 06:00 PM
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Abby Stiller
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Yes, Im geting to the point where I think twice before recommending someone. That's a sad story

Jul 20, 2017 03:08 PM
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Kasey & John Boles
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I'm getting awfully close to not making recommendations at all for much of anything...-Kasey

Jul 20, 2017 02:07 PM
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Michael Setunsky
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Jeff Pearl Yes it would.

Jul 20, 2017 01:33 PM
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Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

I heard this on the news. All of us need to be careful.

Jul 20, 2017 12:55 PM
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Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
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Jeff, thanks, now I will constantly worry about referring my vendors.

Jul 23, 2017 06:05 PM
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Gita Bantwal
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Yes.

Jul 21, 2017 03:08 PM
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Lynnea Miller
Bend Premier Real Estate - Bend, OR
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How terrible.  This guy should have the book thrown at him. 

Jul 21, 2017 03:01 PM
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Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® e-Pro CRS RCS-D Vets
Big Block Realty 858.232.8722 - La Jolla, CA
CEO of Vision Drive Realty - Coastal San Diego

NO.

I had a handyman I'd used for 5 years no issues rob a house once years ago. I of course was blamed for the referral-guilt by association, even though the owner had used him several times in 3 years from my original referral date. I lost the client after 3 deals of history over it, but that revealed the client's character, not mine. I obviously fired the handyman, he was arrested any how; I'm very careful to vet out my peeps, but I'm not their keeper. That's life.

Jul 21, 2017 07:14 AM
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Harry F. D'Elia III
WEDO Real Estate and Beyond, LLC - Phoenix, AZ
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was the person alone?

Jul 21, 2017 06:28 AM
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Gabe Sanders
Real Estate of Florida specializing in Martin County Residential Homes, Condos and Land Sales - Stuart, FL
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I only recommend those whom I've known for a while.  But it does make me pause.

Jul 21, 2017 05:38 AM
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Tony and Suzanne Marriott, Associate Brokers
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Chris Ann Cleland nailed this one!

Jul 21, 2017 05:37 AM
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Marco Giancola
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This world. That is an awful story and yes it would make me think twice.

Jul 21, 2017 04:46 AM
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Sandy Padula & Norm Padula, JD, GRI
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These incidents can happen anywhere and at anytime. Look at all the secondary school teachers having sex with their students. These events are the exception thankfully.

Jul 21, 2017 04:35 AM
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Michael Jacobs
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I'm sorry for the victims and their families.   A couple of thoughts:  

Trust but verify.

Be mindful of your children around strangers.

Jul 21, 2017 03:27 AM
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Praful Thakkar
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Jeff Pearl - just wondering, why would one leave their kids at home with someone who is just a stranger?

Jul 20, 2017 11:15 PM
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I would only recommend people I know very personally.  If parents are not near - kids shouldn't be there. 

Jul 20, 2017 10:05 PM
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William Feela
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It would not as I vet all my referrals I give out

Jul 20, 2017 06:25 PM
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Debbie Reynolds, C21 Platinum Properties
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We used a handyman for several years and later found out he was on the sex offender registry. Grant it the offense was from 25 years ago but we stopped using him and sending him into homes. Can't stand the liability.

Jul 20, 2017 04:18 PM
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Jeff Dowler, CRS
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I hadn't heard about this - horrible story. I have to wonder why kids were left home alone, if that in fact was the case.

Jul 20, 2017 03:04 PM
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Joe Pryor
The Virtual Real Estate Team - Oklahoma City, OK
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No.

Jul 20, 2017 02:17 PM
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Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Chicago, IL
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If people are going to leave their children alone then NO! Not sure you can always know!

Jul 20, 2017 01:42 PM
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Sam Shueh
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Every realtor has sad stories to tell what happended at OH.

Jul 20, 2017 01:37 PM
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Nina Hollander, Broker
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Oh absolutely. Than again, I'm very careful about whom I recommend to work in anyone's home. I also suggest to parents that they not leave their kids alone at home with any kind of worker, inspector, etc. And in our area, there are people in these trades who will not enter a home with kids unless a parent or responsible adult is present.

Jul 20, 2017 01:33 PM
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Will Hamm
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I guess I would think twice.

 

Jul 20, 2017 12:33 PM