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it has nothing to do with caring!! I care but I have never lost sleep over the tasks of the next day.... that's focus and discipline.... learn to clear your mind at the end of the day, and that's possible if you've completed the tasks for that day....we can't address what's not due to be addressed!!!! have self confidence that you will walk away with positive results....and then forget about it until the next day....REFOCUS.... IT'S A DISCIPLINE THAT NEEDS TO BE LEARNED.
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Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
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Pete Xavier
Pacific Palisades, CA
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Wayne Zuhl
Cranford, NJ
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Charlotte, NC
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Jill Murty, Realtor - ...
Laguna Niguel, CA
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Evelyn Johnston
Elkhart, IN
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Kathleen Daniels, Prob...
San Jose, CA
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Paul S. Henderson, REA...
Tacoma, WA
3,448,771
I rarely lose sleep over business. Oddly enough, last night I could not get to sleep as my mind was on one transaction. I do care, and for the most part, the caring does not equate to sleepless nights.
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Charlotte, NC
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Debbie Laity
Cedaredge, CO
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Lyn Sims
Schaumburg, IL
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Evelyn Johnston
Elkhart, IN
5,205,906
It depends. Sometimes it's easy to step away, other times not
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Charlotte, NC
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Allie Angeloni
Oro Valley, AZ
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Evelyn Johnston
Elkhart, IN
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Paul S. Henderson, REA...
Tacoma, WA
2,443,346
Yep, I am always thinking of what still needs to be done, something new to implement or how I can do something else along with everything I already do.
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Charlotte, NC
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Allie Angeloni
Oro Valley, AZ
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Pete Xavier
Pacific Palisades, CA
5,774,106
Puul,
We care but not enough to weaken our health and welfare. If we are not feeling good or tired, what good are we to them. You are not in the business of saving lives, and the first life that matters is yours. A
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Charlotte, NC
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Evelyn Johnston
Elkhart, IN
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Pete Xavier
Pacific Palisades, CA
991,094
Do ALL you can with time blocking your mind, tell your mind between this and this time is me time/rest time so you can be 100% ready to handle the tasks in the morning. It is not easy, but a must for a proper work/life balance and your long term health.
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Charlotte, NC
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Allie Angeloni
Oro Valley, AZ
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Evelyn Johnston
Elkhart, IN
2,260,094
Sometimes
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Charlotte, NC
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Evelyn Johnston
Elkhart, IN
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Paul S. Henderson, REA...
Tacoma, WA
3,764,591
I lie in bed at night thinking about my buyers. And once in a while, I'll wake up from a dream about a listing I think I've forgotten about.
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Charlotte, NC
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Paul S. Henderson, REA...
Tacoma, WA
2,719,063
I can turn it off, and then turn it back on later. I care, but I need to sleep, rest, and take some mental time-off.
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Charlotte, NC
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Debbie Laity
Cedaredge, CO
2,810,604
Hi Paul - Same here, only worse, because there are two of us - sometimes we just turn on the light in the middle of the night and start talking about whatever it is again.
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Charlotte, NC
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Allie Angeloni
Oro Valley, AZ
3,236,484
Paul, Maybe it's being an engineer, but I can compartmentalize fairly well. Or maybe it's the two job thing and running on only 5-6 hours of sleep most days, but once I go to bed I'm out without much tossing and turning. Bill
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Charlotte, NC
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Evelyn Johnston
Elkhart, IN
1,513,143
Our government taught me a long time ago that when the eyes close make it feel like eight hours even if it five minutes and let the mind go blank but keep the senses alive!
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Charlotte, NC
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Evelyn Johnston
Elkhart, IN
1,269,775
Having some stress is healthy. Having no stress or pressure can create a different type of stress.
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Charlotte, NC
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Evelyn Johnston
Elkhart, IN
1,759,637
Most of the time, but once in a while.....
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Charlotte, NC
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Evelyn Johnston
Elkhart, IN
4,434,277
I am a caring person but fortunately I know that there ae things I can not control so do not worry about those things. I agree with Barbara.
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Charlotte, NC
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Allie Angeloni
Oro Valley, AZ
1,466,257
Paul S. Henderson, REALTOR®, Broker, Tacoma Washington Nothing is so urgent or important that it can't wait until the next day.
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Charlotte, NC
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Evelyn Johnston
Elkhart, IN
5,396,509
Some days I can put it behind me and other days not so much.
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Pete Xavier
Pacific Palisades, CA
3,074,716
4,322,295
Paul S. Henderson, REALTOR®, Broker, Tacoma Washington if you are caring - you must care for yourself and your family, isn't it?
Your health matters a lot for your family - you should not be tossing all night worried about something that you can't control or change.
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Charlotte, NC
2,234,865
I worked at home for one day about two weeks ago. I thought it would be more relaxing. It wasn't. I kept feeling like I was skipping school by not being around the office.
I told myself I have to program my brain to shut down and forget work at certain times. I'm still working on that.
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Charlotte, NC
3,988,144
I remembe early in my career I thought about it all the time. Now I can put is aside and only give it extra thought when I need to work out a problem.
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Charlotte, NC
1,525,616
I have learned to let things go when it comes to work but there were times when I would lose sleep over my business.
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Charlotte, NC
3,386,608
I have fabulous agents that watch my business when I am away so I don't ever toss and turn while on vacation.
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Charlotte, NC
1,765,179
Paul, I'd love to say I can just turn it off at 5:00, but I never really turn it off.
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Charlotte, NC
5,357,283
I do agree with Barbara. Its a discipline that needs to be learned. I enjoy my private time and can enjoy it because I know I've done the best I can for my clients.
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Charlotte, NC
291,019
I, too, have always thought about any job on my time off - sometimes it's a 'worry', and other times it is not Paul S. Henderson, REALTOR®, Broker, Tacoma Washington. And here, that is what we talk about in our free time, too, since we are both realtors - HA!
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Pete Xavier
Pacific Palisades, CA
1,658,108
I'm pretty good in focusing on things that I can do to fix now, instead of warring about possible consequences. Years of practicing yoga probably helped:)
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Charlotte, NC
1,875,618
Turn your head off at night. Unplug the cord.
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Charlotte, NC
403,357
Long distance signatures can easily be obtained using electronic signatures. Even the most un-tech savvy clients can do electronic signatures. It is the rare occasion that a client just doesn't feel comfortable using them.
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Charlotte, NC
5,293,320
Been there and still there. I care to much some one said once.
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Charlotte, NC
6,774,535
I am on 24/7 have been since starting my childhood businesses. Cant imagine how to shut it off.
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Allie Angeloni
Oro Valley, AZ
1,547,084
I keep a clear mind. It isn't a lack of caring, it's a lack of worrying about things outside of my control and not being attached. Just had a 1.16m listing fall out of escrow last night. Today there is another full price offer on the table. Zero need to fret or lose sleep.
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It happens but I'm trying to work on keeping a healthy perspective... I recently saw a 5x5 rule that helps: "If it's not going ot matter in 5 years, don't spend more than 5 minutes upset by it". Post it! Try it!! :)
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930,545
You are not alone! I think most responsible people tend to bring their cares home with them.
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1,395,083
One of us tosses and turns and worries all night. The other one doesn't.
Marriage is all about compromise, isn't it
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When important dates are near I get just like you. Buyer has an option period ending 8/13. It's after midnight and I'm still up.
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Oh no, I'm a thinker and I over think just about everything. I spend a lot of time worrying or re-thinking something. I have a hard time falling and staying asleep!